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What's The Parent’s Role With Homework?

If we want kids to invest in their education, we have to allow them to take on the responsibility of managing their school and homework.

Share Your Kid's 30 Answers

There was instantly a huge response to our recent post "30 Questions to Ask Your Kid Instead of 'How Was Your Day?'" Clearly many parents share the pain of the typical one syllable reply - "Good." ...

Best links of the week

If you go to a fair without taking a photo of the ferris wheel, did you really even go to the fair? Our Vermont roots couldn't be more proud of our state's Official Word (according to Slate, althou...

Take the 10-Question "Kids and Social Media" Survey

We'd like to know your thoughts about how your kids use (or aren't allowed to use) social media. We're curious how real parents weigh the pros and cons of this surprisingly complicated issue. The ...

I Wanted To Say Something To You, Middle School

?Dear Middle School, I know you. I’ve been you. I’ve walked your halls. I’ve taught in your classrooms. I’ve graded your dog-chewed homework. I know your smells of too-fruity perfume and not-yet-d...

Best links of the week

Our kids went back to school this week. Thank you to the teachers who work so hard, even when no one's looking. Watch American kids try lunches from around the world. (Personally, I don't think ...

Admit It, Baby Carrots Are Gross

Bagged baby carrots are convenient and cute. And orange. But in my house, we've gone back to the original convenient-cute-and-orange snack: cheese doodles. Just kidding. Carrot sticks. That's becau...

3 Things We Learned On the First Day of Kindergarten

This morning, we saw our little guy off to kindergarten. He’s the younger of two and there will be no more. So, yeah, it was a big deal—but not in a way that a) we were crying about our grown-up ba...

The Very Old Family Dog

Our family dog is 17 years old. Spy was born in 1998. For most of these years, she was just my dog. She came and went with me. I took care of her. We were a two-person pack. I've lived with her lon...

BPS Research Digest: How do lying skill and frequency change through life, from childhood to old age?

Young adults – defined here as people aged 18 to 29 – are the most skilled liars, while teens are the most prolific. That's according to a new study published in Acta Psychologica that claims to be...

Muddle School

When I moved to Denver, the third thing I noticed after the sunshine and the walkable brunch spot was the middle school obsession.

The 40 Year Old (Motorcycle) Virgin

I’m a middle-aged dad just getting into motorcycling. Why did it take so long? Perhaps it was the learning curve, or just because I’m a wuss.

Are tablet computers harming our children's ability to read? | Technology | The Guardian

The adoption of the tablet has come on fast and furious. In the 5 years since Apple first launched the iPad, the number of children who have access to tablets has jumped from 7% of 5-15 year olds...

Why Teen-Agers Are the Worst - The New Yorker

Why are teens, in some ways, more difficult to parent than toddlers? Science may have some answers. The frontal lobes are the seat of what’s sometimes called the brain’s executive function. T...

3 Steps to Better Family Routines for the New School Year

You want to enjoy your time with your kids, not spend it fighting about breakfast, getting ready, or homework. Thankfully, routines help solve that problem.

How to Make the First Day of School a Total Success – For You

If you really want to get the year off to a stellar start, it’s time to approach this a little differently. Here’s how to make the first day of school a total success – for you. After all, why sho...

"Be consistent" - Susan Sontag's Parenting List

Lists have a bad name on the internet, where websites use them to suck in viral views: "Top 10 Celebrity Bikini Fails," "5 Foods You Should Never Eat if You Want to Lose Flab!" But in real life I ...

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Summer Lessons: What We Learned

We're just a few days away from the first day of school. It feels like school just ended; it also feels like forever ago. Summer went by so fast - too fast for many of us. While summer is still han...

Lucky Charms and Donuts for Breakfast

I've accepted that my in-laws consider "spoiling kids" with sugary treats part of their grandparent job description.

Does Your Stress Really Harm Your Kids?

Modern parents are repeatedly told that their stress has a lasting effect on their children's development. For example, this Daily Beast post, alarmingly titled "Stressed Parents Scar Their Kids:" ...

The Milestones That Don't Make Baby Books, Like Smart-Assery

First steps, successful potty training, emerging teeth- all milestones worthy of the baby book. But maybe we should make room for some new ones.

Bedtime Stories for Young Brains - The New York Times

While we don't really need more convincing that curling up with a book is one of the best things we can do with our kids, knowing that it can have long term effects on their brain is a nice bonus...

I Was Rejected by Sub Pop in 1993 – But My Kids Think I’m a Rockstar

I bet you didn’t know I used to be a rock star. In my suburban bedroom. Beyond singing into a hairbrush, I spent my teenage years with an acoustic guitar, a black and white composition book, and ...

30 Fastest Ways for Parents to Reduce Stress, Backed By Science

As part of our series on parents and stress, we researched the fastest ways for parents to reduce stress. All of these link to the study, research or article that backed them up. Make a suggestion ...